Often, our inability to discriminate is a primary reason for our suffering. We suffer in relationships and justify the same saying that we are emotional, while the fact of the matter is that we are weak and that weakness creates dependence, and that dependence results in exploitation, and we suffer due to that silent exploitation. Since we do not acknowledge our weaknesses, we never work on our weaknesses and grow weaker with each passing day. The same thing happens in organizations. We suffer because we are not competent, and therefore our employer takes advantage of us and exploits us. We give it the name of compulsion and keep justifying the same. We often try to hide reality behind something else. We will not acknowledge the differentiation in society based on gender and caste, and try to justify the same in the name of customs and traditions. We try to hide the ill effects of preservatives in the packaged products with taste enhancers. "Good boy" is a compliment that ha...
We had an interaction session with children in the last two days. It was really wonderful to interact with the children. We discussed their fears, ambitions, and dreams. It is so good to see their willingness to challenge fears. They are willing to examine their fear of separation from parents, judgment by society, comparison with peers, and fear of failure. They are willing to work hard to handle these fears. Once that openness to examine and willingness to work hard to develop capacity are there, they are going to handle all these fears sooner or later. It seems strange that children are so open to examining their fears, while adults often become so rigid in admitting their fears. When we visit a doctor, we have to tell the exact feelings and symptoms so as to enable the doctor to diagnose. If we pretend to be OK, how is the doctor going to diagnose? Most adults keep suffering and do not gather the courage even to admit that they are sick, leaving aside visiting the doctor. Goin...